Dear and Wise World-Changer,
"I believe we can change the world if we start listening to each other. Simple, honest, human conversation. Not mediation, negotiation, problem-solving, debate, or public meetings. Simple truthful conversation where we each have a chance to speak, we each feel heard, and we listen well." ~ Margaret Wheatly
Our first Wisdom Circle was a sweet one. Details on the next one, below…. (Please forward this to anyone you know who's desiring more reliable connection, support, wisdom or community…or a place to more fully encounter and digest what's happening within themselves, their lives, or the world.)
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I agree with what someone said at my BD gathering: One thing that's needed right now is more Wisdom. A truth that's borne out in the work I've done is that humans simply think better, and that deeper Wisdom arises from each of us, when we're listened to in the right way….
To answer the call for wisdom, and serve those seeking a reliable source of authentic connection/support/community, we'll meet following the time-tested, wisdom tradition of the Native American Council ritual (slightly modified for online).
Also known as a "Wisdom Circle," this tradition is a safe and sacred way of gathering for heart-based speaking and listening. It's a warm, caring and judgment-free space for deep truth telling…in which to experience a cumulative kinship and belonging that deepens over time (a powerful antidote to fear and isolation).
A Wisdom Circle is also a place to birth our visions, celebrate our triumphs, and to release and heal pent-up and unresolved emotions. We laugh and grieve together...while encountering, exploring and sharing our deeper thoughts, feelings and wisdom, with respect to what's currently transpiring in ourselves, our lives, and our world.
However, one never needs to speak unless they so choose: Anyone is fully welcome, and a full participant in this community, even if they're nourished solely by giving others the gift of their compassionate attention.
"Each and every one of us had ancestors who sat around a fire together…drumming, singing, dancing, sharing their experience and telling stories, praying to the spirit of the sacred place on Earth that they knew as "Home." In those circles people spoke from the heart, and listened from the heart…they found solutions to their problems, they laughed and they played, celebrated and grieved together…. The memory of this time is in your body, in your bones, in your belly. It is your deep, timeless connection to the circle. It is your heritage." ~ "Wisdom Circles: A Guide to Self Discovery and Community Building in Small Groups"
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WISDOM CIRCLE SPECIFICS:
Time: Sunday, May 24, 2020 - 04:00-06:00 PM PST/PDT (Pacific Time, US and Canada)
** If you're seriously interested and this time doesn't work for you, please let me know what times would.
Dana: Sliding scale: $20-40
* I want this to be available to all. I also need to at least request dana to honor all the time, energy and caring I’ve invested to offer this. If there's hardship, or this feels like too much for you right now, however, please just come and give whatever comes from genuine appreciation...or whatever feels like a worthy investment in community or self-care...even if it's just a prayer or blessing! :)
[ “Dana”, for those who’ve not heard the term, contains the spirit of "appreciation and sacred reciprocity”…in this case, a “giving back/paying it forward” for this circle's visioning, creation, scheduling and facilitation, carefully-worded messages and supporting documents, and Zoom fees…as well as for many hours of time/energy that went to study of indigenous and modern versions of this tradition. ]
Come as you are! (If you're feeling exceptionally down, distraught, vulnerable, unpresentable, that's the most important time to stretch and show up. If you’re feeling fantastic, your uplifting positive energy is also so important! :)
* I want this to be available to all. I also need to at least request dana to honor all the time, energy and caring I’ve invested to offer this. If there's hardship, or this feels like too much for you right now, however, please just come and give whatever comes from genuine appreciation...or whatever feels like a worthy investment in community or self-care...even if it's just a prayer or blessing! :)
[ “Dana”, for those who’ve not heard the term, contains the spirit of "appreciation and sacred reciprocity”…in this case, a “giving back/paying it forward” for this circle's visioning, creation, scheduling and facilitation, carefully-worded messages and supporting documents, and Zoom fees…as well as for many hours of time/energy that went to study of indigenous and modern versions of this tradition. ]
Requests:
- Please click here to pay beforehand
- Next, please click on this meeting link to register for the Zoom event now. This will help me plan for how many are coming, and let us know to wait for you before starting. (After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting.)
- You may want to click on the "Add to calendar" link on the "Meeting Registration Approved" page
- If you're new to Zoom: On the "Meeting Registration Approved" page that pops up, click on the link where it says, "Please click this URL to join"...to test your connection and resolve any issues you might have getting on in advance. (This should successfully connect you to an empty zoom room.)
- Please Come On Time, or even a couple minutes early. Doing so and following the above step will allow us to start promptly and ensure everyone gets an adequate amount of time to share what they need to. (As we'll be opening a sacred/ritual space and co-creating a safe & confidential container, this is not a "drop in whenever" kind of event. :-)
- If You Decide Not to Come: Please cancel your Zoom registration, so that we don't wait for you! (use link at the bottom of your confirmation email from Zoom)
Optional Items:
- A non-alcoholic drink (no food, please)
- Notepad/journal (to capture valuable insights, commitments, etc)
- Sacred items to use as Talking Stick, or for virtual altar
- Meditation cushion (we usually spend a bit of time in silence together)
- Timer with audible chime (we may need a volunteer to be our Time Keeper)
Password-Protected Zoom Meeting:
Meeting ID: 834 8112 6869 / Password: 722473
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"Connection is why we're here. It's what gives purpose and meaning to our lives. This is what it's all about. What we know [from decades of research in multiple fields] is that the ability to feel connected is how we're wired neuro-biologically, it's why we're here." ~ Brené Brown
We would cherish the gift of your heart wisdom, compassionate ear, and beautiful presence at our next Virtual Wisdom Circle! Please join us - and/or pass this along to someone you think would be interested….
In service, solace, and solidarity,
Rich
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Thought for Today: It is the province of knowledge to speak, and it is the privilege of wisdom to listen. ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes
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Thought for Today: If we could recognize our common humanity.... that our destinies are bound up in one
another's.... that we can be free only together, then a glorious world would come
into being where all of us lived together as one family, the human family....
~ Desmond Tutu
Rich Raffals
Web Designer/Programmer, Trainer, Coach
Awaken the Magic Coaching & Consulting - 650-493-2993
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